Anonymous said: "I’m actually quite fond of endings with permanent or long-term entrapment for the character… just as long as it’s a story." I don't understand that. If it feels so wrong when it's real, why is it enjoyable as a story?
Arousal has this habit of making practical concerns temporarily vanish. It’s a special kind of delirious oblivion that’s responsible for many a stupid decision.
Kink practice is very good at acknowledging that it happens, mastering it to enjoy it in full, while successfully bringing the participants back to reality afterwards. We like to pretend things in the heat of the moment that we’d never give a second thought with a rational mind - for example, that someone’s restraints or humiliation might be permanent - and when we’re let do so without the need to put practicality to it it’s amazing. Then the whole process of aftercare is there to safely transition the partners, particularly the sub(s), back to the rational waking world.
If it feels wrong even when in the mood, that’s probably not your fetish.